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Stand Up - You Can Do It Too

Tuesday, September 11th, 2007

About 15 years ago, I bought a slew of fancy electronic equipment from a big chain. After walking in and listing the functionality I wanted very specifically, I was sold products that, it turned out, couldn’t do a single thing on my list. Insisting on a refund, I was told that the store policy excluded them. They definitely got that I was angry, but had no idea what to do. My back up plan was to literally go picket the store with a large sign and my two sons in tow. It would have been onerous time-wise, but I would have done it.

The back-up plan wasn’t needed though, because, after a few hours of furious telephone work, I had the name and private number of the owner of the chain in his chalet in some mountain resort. I’m sure that my call didn’t improve his holiday, but I got my refund. Sitting at this computer, I know that the same task would be even easier today.

Yesterday, I read about Jason Calacanis fighting for, and getting, an apology from Wired.

Jason’s a well connected guy, you say? You couldn’t accomplish the same thing? Yes, you could. Some of it might take longer without the shortcuts afforded by a powerful phone book, but you could do it. All you need is the determination and perseverance. When I tracked down that big chain owner, he didn’t know me from Adam. We weren’t in the same business or community, and didn’t live in the same city or even country. I was simply an angry woman and mother.

What is different than it was 15 years ago, is that we are all now publishers, just as I commented on Jeff Jarvis’s post pointing to his column in the Guardian today about Google becoming a content provider.

The Calacanis Wired scenario is one to take note of. Traditional media has been wrapping itself up in knots for quite some time now over their potential loss of control and authority over the news we consume. There have been many references on weblogs to the NY Times ignoring the pointing out of errors and requests for corrections. In print, newspapers could tuck retractions and corrections into an inside corner below the fold in small print, where hardly anyone ever read them. This can’t be accomplished the same way online. The prospect of apologizing publicly to a reader, let alone one who can talk back, must be the stuff of nightmares for them.

Most individuals publishing online aren’t journalists or reporters, but more of us could and should be advocates for ourselves and each other. A truly free press is a cornerstone of every aspect of freedom.

Next time you are faced with an injustice, stand up …you can do it. If it affects a lot of us, then we have to learn how to join our voices together more effectively, and we can do that too. The better we learn to use our voices, the more we’ll be able to achieve.

Gloomy Sunday

Monday, September 10th, 2007

I used to sing this years ago, accompanying myself on the piano, when I was missing a loved one and feeling inconsolable.

Billie of course (1933-4):

Diamanda Galas’s version:

More Diamanda Galas here.

missing my sons

Sunday, September 9th, 2007

if i could have counted
the hugs and kisses would they
be more or less

tickled pink by the simplest fragment of css

Sunday, August 12th, 2007

Tickled pink…not for switching over to new Blogger last night, and tweaking the template all over the place, and having to replace my painstakingly built sidebar with endless widget tool entries (aargh)… but for the grooved right and bottom border on each post here. I wanted it to stay open visually but the text of the posts beside the text in the sidebar was too distracting.

Ok, so it’s only a few lines of css. So what?

Well, it may be just a few lines, but figuring out how to form them, where to put them and why, is a little milestone for me. It’s the first time that I fully understood the structure part of what I was doing in css rather than just tweaking or working around something.

If you’ve read this weblog, you know that I’m not a techie, even though my husband has started to say, “My wife is becoming a geek.” Maybe I am one at heart, but that doesn’t really count when it comes to knowledge, experience and occupation, does it?

When we first put computers into our offices in 1982-3, I watched my controller making as many versions of a spreadsheet as I asked for (based on different assumptions) as if it were magic, using Lotus 1-2-3. Mea culpa… his manual left with me. Now that was easy. Start at a dos prompt, create your formulas in command form, and presto! Dbase came next.

By the time my kids were teenagers, trying to convince me to IM them to come down for dinner (I insisted that calling up the stairs was easier), the growth was accelerating, but it had little to do with me. I had to be dragged into Windows in the late 90s kicking and protesting all the way.

I get that all these user interfaces do enable a lot of people, but considering the sheer mass of languages and programs today can make my head hurt. Years ago I bought a book called Learn Html Over The Weekend, and actually did, but it seems to me that making an html template is to web building now as speaking pidgin English would be to undertaking post graduate studies in linguistics. 10 years ago I could have built an elementary website. Now I’d have to spend months learning in order to build a state of the art weblog, and I only spend a couple of hours a day on blogging.

In his post today, Brad Feld looks for a developer with experience in the following:

Ruby/Ruby on Rails
Flex 2
XHTML/CSS/Javascript/AJAX/JSON/XML
MySQL
Apache2/Mongrel

This simply reminds me of why this weblog isn’t on verabass.com yet. Aside from the fact that I was out of commission from January through July for health reasons, getting a full comprehension of the best way to build what I want there (more than just a blog) is a big chore. You can’t just wander around the web with a shopping cart adding components like wikis and things and then sort of glue them all together. It’s a hundred times easier to find/hire a group of experts in different areas for a big project than to make something medium sized that is personal rather than commercial.

Don’t get me started on visual design, either. It’s the primary reason that learning to understand the way css is structured is important to me. Never mind that we need database structure and other components far more for functionality. We can’t build something both beautiful and functional with just Photoshop and javascripts, either.

Anyway, I’m tickled pink over my simple border. Isn’t it amazing how easy any little thing is once you know how to do it? Now this place will be easier on my eyes until moving day comes.

I think that I also managed to remove no-follow for comments here, although there still doesn’t appear to be any way past Blogger’s underlying structure stopping trackbacks.

ps. my learning of anything comes as much from books as from online resources, but one of the more easily comprehensible sites I’ve found with basics for newbies is HTML Dog’s The Best Practice Guide To XHTML and CSS. Beyond that, my favorite is the fab A List Apart.

Old Photo

Saturday, July 28th, 2007

196_?….perhaps I haven’t changed much after all…

Do the major events in our lives really change us, or do they just make us more like ourselves?

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